BEYOND THE MASK: Somatic De-Armoring & Relational Integrity

A 4-Hour Tantric Immersion to Release Defense, Rewire Safety, and Restore Intimacy in Relating

📍Ubud| ⏰ 9:00 AM - 2:00 PM | 👥 Limited to 10 People 
(Includes Farm-to-Table Integration Lunch)

WHAT THIS IS

This is a Tantric Immersion—but not the version you've seen commercialized.

This is not about ecstatic bliss, sexual awakening, or "goddess energy."

This is Tantra as a technology of nervous system regulation and relational reprogramming.

Tantra, at its root, means "weaving." We weave together what's been split:

• Body and mind.
• Activation and rest.
• Masculine and feminine.
• Defense and intimacy.

For 4 hours, we will guide you through a precise somatic and relational process to:

1. Release the armor your body built to survive.
2. Rewire your nervous system to recognize that intimacy is not a threat.
3. Reprogram relational patterns between men and women—so you can finally stop performing and start feeling.

This is Tantra as recalibration. Tantra as precision. Tantra as the practice of staying present in your body while in contact with another.

THE PATTERNS WE ARE TRANSFORMING

You're intelligent. Successful. Self-aware.

But when it comes to intimate connection—romantic, sexual, or even just vulnerable—you notice the same patterns:

If you're a man:

• You lead, initiate, hold space... but rarely let yourself be held.
• You're drawn to feminine energy, but when a woman is "too open," you pull back.
• Intimacy feels like a performance you can't drop.
• You want to be wanted for who you are—not just what you provide.

If you're a woman:

• You adapt, attune, "hold space" for others... but lose yourself in the process.
• You're drawn to masculine presence, but when a man gets too close, you either collapse or create distance.
• You say yes when you mean no. Or say no and feel guilty.
• You want to be desired for who you are—not just how accommodating you are.

Here's what's actually happening:

These aren't character flaws. They're nervous system strategies you developed to stay safe in a world that punished vulnerability.

This immersion helps you shift those strategies—not through talk, but through somatic release and relational practice in a safe container.

THIS IS NOT:
❌ Sexual tantra (no nudity, no sexual touch, no "tantric massage")
❌ Couples work (you come solo; we work in structured group exercises)
❌ Spiritual bypassing (we work with what's stuck, not only what feels good)

THIS IS:
✅ Precise somatic practice to release years of armor
✅ Nervous system rewiring to restore safety in intimacy

THE 4-PHASE TANTRIC STRUCTURE

PHASE 1: DISCHARGE – Releasing the Armor (75 min)

The tantric principle: Before you can weave energy with another, you must first release what's stagnant in your own system.

What we do:

• Active meditation 
• Shaking protocols (voluntary tremoring to discharge stored tension)
• Sounding (vocal release to move stuck energy from throat, diaphragm, pelvis)
• Solo movement (letting the body express what it's been holding)

The specific focus:
We target tension patterns that keep you defended:

PHASE 2: RECODING – Guiding Safety (45 min)

The tantric principle: Safety is the foundation of aliveness. Without it, intimacy becomes performance.

What we do:

• Grounding practices (reconnecting to the body as home)
• Pendulation training (moving between activation and rest—teaching your system flexibility)
• Boundary embodiment (practicing "yes" and "no" from sensation, not thought)

The specific focus:
Most people live in chronic activation (fight/flight) or shutdown (freeze/fawn). Neither allows intimacy.

We install the physiology of safety:

• For men: You can rest without collapsing. You can receive without losing your ground.
• For women: You can take space without being aggressive. You can say no without abandoning connection.

PHASE 3: RELATIONAL REPROGRAMMING – Tantra as Relational Polarity (90 min)

This is the core of tantric work.

The tantric principle: What closed in contact must reopen in contact. You didn't learn your armor alone—you learned it in relationship. So we rewire it in relationship.

LET'S BE CLEAR ABOUT BOUNDARIES:

✅ There WILL be:

• Eye contact exercises
• Practices in pairs
• Consensual, clothed, non-sexual touch 
• Exploration of polarity, attraction, and relational tension

❌ There will NEVER be:

• Nudity
• Sexual touch, massage, or "tantric bodywork"
• Romantic pairing or "partner matching"
• Anything that violates dignity or consent

If you're here for a sexual experience disguised as tantra, you will be removed. No refund.

The patterns we recode:

Men's Programming:

• "I must lead or I'm not valuable."
• "If I soften, I'll lose respect."
• "Asking for what I need is weak."

↓ REWIRED TO ↓

• "I can lead AND receive."
• "Vulnerability increases intimacy."
• "My needs are not a burden."

Women's Programming:

• "I must accommodate or I'll be abandoned."
• "My boundaries will hurt people."
• "If I'm not 'open,' I'm cold."

↓ REWIRED TO ↓

• "I can say no and still be loved."
• "Boundaries create safety for intimacy."
• "I don't need to perform softness."

PHASE 4: INTEGRATION – Landing the Work (60 min)

The tantric principle: Integration grounds the energetic and somatic work into the body and into life.

What we do:

• Guided rest (nervous system settling)
• Farm-to-table lunch in community 
• Optional witness circle 

WHO THIS IS FOR

✅ You've done inner work, and you're ready to rewire a specific pattern—not just understand it.

✅ You struggle with intimacy.

✅ You notice repeating relational patterns and you're ready to change the wiring.

✅ You're willing to be uncomfortable. 

✅ You value precision over mysticism.

WHO THIS IS NOT FOR

🚫 You're looking for a romantic or sexual connection.
🚫 You want to observe, not participate.
🚫 You think "tantra" means sex.
🚫 You're not ready to take responsibility for your patterns.

WHAT'S INCLUDED

✅ 4-hour tantric immersion (somatic + relational)
✅ Farm-to-table integration lunch
✅ Post-immersion integration guide

MEET YOUR FACILITATOR

Esaú is an international Tantra Teacher, Transpersonal Therapist and Relationship Mentor.

Rooted in a rigorous academic background in Sociology, Anthropology, and Body Psychotherapy, his approach bridges the gap between ancient tantric technologies and modern therapeutic grounding.

With over 4 years of experience guiding deep immersive spaces, his work has been featured on Spanish National Television, broadcasting his facilitation methods to a mainstream audience as a benchmark for safety and depth.

He creates a clinical-grade container where the mystical meets the practical, allowing for profound nervous system regulation and relational breakthroughs.