🌑 When Wanting Costs Love: (3-Week Shadow Work Journey)

“When Wanting Costs Love” is a 3-week shadow work journey into the hidden conflict between desire and belonging.

Many people feel torn between love and their personal truth — believing that going for what they want means hurting, disappointing, or losing someone. This series helps participants meet the inner parts behind this struggle: the one that silences desire to stay safe, and the one that burns bridges to stay free.

Through parts work, somatic exploration, and guided integration, Norma guides participants to reclaim their right to want — without guilt, self-abandonment, or destruction.

Each week stands alone yet connects to a larger transformation arc from fear → liberation → wholeness.

WEEK 1 — The Split: Why Wanting Feels Dangerous   

 Sunday 9th November (6 hours, includes plant-based lunch)

🕘 9:00 AM – 4:00 PM

Theme: Reclaiming the right to want.
Focus: Understanding how early experiences made desire feel unsafe.
Experience:

• Discover where you silence your wants

• Meet the parts that fear desire

• Restore permission to want what you want
   

You’ll leave with clarity, self-compassion, and renewed permission to desire.

WEEK 2 — The Fire: When Freedom Burns Connection  

 Sunday 16th November (6 hours, includes plant-based lunch)

🕘 9:00 AM – 4:00 PM

Theme: Healing the part that destroys to be free.
Focus: Meeting “The Burner” — the protector who ends things to avoid control.
Experience:

• Dialogue with the part that fears entrapment

• Transform rebellion into sacred autonomy

• Learn to channel fire into conscious liberation
   

You’ll leave feeling free without losing connection.

WEEK 3 — The Bridge: Choosing Desire Without Guilt    

 Sunday 23rd November (6 hours, includes plant-based lunch)

🕘 9:00 AM – 4:00 PM

Theme: Integrating freedom and belonging.
Focus: Learning to stay connected while being true to yourself.
Experience:

• Practice expressing wants with honesty and care

• Release guilt around pleasure and individuality

• Anchor new patterns of authentic connection
   

You’ll leave grounded in your truth, able to love without losing yourself.

🎟️ Ticketing

• 6-Hour Workshops (includes plant-based lunch) → 1,200K IDR (Early Bird) | 1,500K IDR (Regular)

• Full Journey Bundle (3 sessions) → 3,300 IDR

  ✨ Early Bird valid until 72 hours before each event